May 16, 2004
currently playing Nelly - Dilemma
xiaoqiang says: another xiaoqiang trio picture. wahahahah.. what do you all think? maybe it's not really well done up compare to the previous one. refer to the smaller pix on the right, below the tagboard. and also introducing my Mr Booboo.. a new member to join the rest of PRs on my com in the office.
xiaoqiang says: recently, my friend related this problem to me. i told him why not post this problem or question(text in purple) on the net and see our fellow aunties agony if they can help to answer his question. he's worried that the female lead might surf the net and he will screw up the relationship. here i am doing copy and paste thingy and a good deed to help him. and if you are the girl in the situation reading this, please don't take it on my friend. for he's having dilemma about the relationship between you two. perhaps you two might wanna sit down and talk about it. *wink*
i personally think he doesn't deserved this hot and cold treatment from this girl, judging from this relationship as plainly friends. what do you think? c'mon he needs your help, your friend's help. ladies, girls ranging from 17 to 30( he stated the age.....17? huh?), throw your views, comments. hey, we got a nice guy to save.
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" sometimes things just complicates and it just send me to rethink, re-adjust and reconsider what is our relationship( between me and her) okie. something weird happened this week.
thurs morning was fine. we were chattingand joking over msn till.. i asked her to call my boss too to place swatch watch order if she wants to buy the watch at discounted prices. later on, she went " i don't wanna talk to you anymore." *huh?* and she really never talked to me for the whole day. i dunno what went wrong. or what did i do/say to make her react such way. although she did reminded me it's time of the month and she will be cranky. i fully understand that you human female species has moody period of ranges from 2 days to more than a week. but it just couldn't justify anything.
i had a busy afternoon too. real busy i only get to talk to her after my job for the day was done. by then she's gone with her colleagues for dinner. i called her up and ask" you still not ready to talk to me ah" she went ," no not ready." i ask her what did i do." it took you so long, the whole day to ask me, and after thousand of hours i have forget about it already." she ended the call.
i call her again before i sleep and asked what did i do. she kept saying, she has forgotten about it already. now whats wrong?
On friday morning, we didn't really talked over msn. i knew she's has a few stories on hand to write /edit. so as usual, i offered to buy for her lunch. in case she wants to lunching in. in the end she ended up buying for me. Still, we didn't talked. in the evening, she was passing around some chocolates from cilents. i was there sitting doing my work. she offered the chocolates to my colleagues sitting next to me and walked off. at least of a little courtesy gesture, you will offer to the person on the side. she didn't. and she walked off offering to the rest of people. when i walked off and returned to my desk, i found a box of chocolates on my desk( that's from her).
We finally started to talk when she complained over the msn that she has headache.( she's kinda weak i think...wahhaha) shoulders aching, headaches...bla bla bla. but i guess its that time of the month.she did mentioned and warned me about she's having the time of the month and will be cranky. as norm, i asked her to drink more water. she refused... till i poured her a cup of warm water. then we began talking on msn and sharing a cup of ice-cream. i left earlier this time cos i had a dinner with my friend. then she went that i can try my luck to call her after dinner, 'cos she's driving and will be going for a spin after work.
after dinner, thats like 11pm, i was heading for train ride home. she called me and told me she's actually at her void deck. told me not to try my luck 'cos she is going home. i told her i was going home too. and the verdict of the conversation is i will drop off the mrt near her place and she will pick me up from there. it's kinda stupid to drop off the station near her place 'cos it's much further then where i stay. but my instinct tells me she can't be so crazy waiting for 10 mins at her void deck and not going home( so much for instinct).
and indeed, she was crazy waiting for me at the pick-up point to send me home. i asked her if there's anything she wants to tell me. she said none, and she's just plain hungry and tired so she sat in the car.*huh?*
i really appreciated she send me home eventhough she's tired. but all these events really hit me hard. i was thinking what did i do that she's giving this hot & cold treatment. seriously, i can't think of anything to upset her. if you can enlighten me. pls do.
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