xiaoqiang says: M. gentil means Mr Nice in french. read an article in " SUNDAY LIFESTYLE " today on what man wants. it's more like a auntie agony question thingy.

Q: i 'm about to start a new relationship with a nice guy. but i don't want to have sex with him.i'm just looking for a little romance and affection. but will men today accept this, how should i put this across to him?

A:Congratulations on finding a nice guy.....bla bla bla....rats will dump you if he doesn't get what he needs, including sex. the nice guy will not push you into sex, and will be sensitive to when you are ready.

a nice guy will respect you values and needs.there are definitely men who don't have only sex on their minds and willnigly to wait, but admittedly, there are not many of them round..... bla bla bla..


xiaoqiang says: this mr nice guy happens to be my lot of friends. but nice is not a good word. many had told me qiang ah, he so nice... he so sweet... but no ones tells me they want him/ them. don't you girls long for, hope for this kind of man?? so what's the question again. what man wants? or what women wants? why women after all those thrills, fast and furious, speed. after roller-coaster ride and in the end they say they wanted a quiet simple life, a nice guy to treat them right. tsktsk... very contradicting.